Entertaining The Baby
Forget the “Super-Baby” Syndrome: You Entertain Baby Best
Six simple ways to support your baby’s healthy development
As new parents, you want the best for your baby, and you’re willing
to do whatever it takes to ensure his well-being. Therefore, you’ll
buy all sorts of fancy gizmos, and pour through mountains of information
about all of the products and resources that claim they can turn your
infant into a “super-baby” who will be intellectually advanced,
happier, or “improved” in some miraculous way. However,
all of the gadgets and gizmos in the world can’t give your baby
what he or she needs most – which is YOU!
In actuality, infant development experts have discovered that your
behavior – how you interact and respond to your baby – is
the key to stimulating your infant’s emotional and intellectual
growth. During his first years, your baby’s brain will develop
billions of pathways. Everything that your infant sees, hears, or touches
during his earliest years of life will strengthen these pathways. As
the pathways mature in your baby’s brain, they will enable your
baby to think, learn and eventually talk.
To stimulate growth, infants don’t require expensive toys; they
learn by doing. In addition to loving, nurturing care, what they most
need are new things to try. Therefore, if you want to provide nourishment
for your infant’s mind, offer experiences that stimulate your
baby’s senses, as well as encourage his interaction with his surroundings.
For example, holding, cuddling, playing, talking and other similar kinds
of nurturing activities all stimulate brain development. And they are
all free!
Here are six simple ways you can support your baby’s healthy
development:
Language
Talk to your baby to help him develop language skills. Long before babies
begin to form words, they are learning language and creating “conversations.”
Encourage your baby’s vocabulary to grow by repeating the sounds
he makes back to him. Play a face-to-face game as you interact. Enunciate
each word clearly so he can see how your mouth moves. Imitate your baby’s
sounds and gestures, and add to them. When he makes a certain sound,
tell him actual words that start with that sound. Then, pause for a
moment and give him a chance to respond.
Touch
Touch is one of your baby’s most effective methods for exploring
and learning about the world around her. Your baby’s hands are
her first tools, and she will be fascinated by what they can do. Not
only will she use her hands to explore new and interesting objects,
she will use them to become aware of the boundaries of her own body.
Let your baby touch and handle a variety of textured and smooth objects,
as long as they are nontoxic and safe. Try materials that are gentle
to the touch, such as velvet, fur, silk, or terry cloth. Wooden building
blocks, plastic balls, rubber squeak toys, cloth books, or crumpled
paper can also provide another set of interesting textures.
Scents
Introduce scents to your baby since pleasant aromas will enhance his
sensory awareness. Try lotions, perfumes or after shave—any mild
pleasing scents. Use everyday activities to explore the discovery of
scents. For example, while you are cooking, let him smell the cinnamon,
then the vanilla, or cut up pieces of fragrant fruit or fresh herbs
and hold them under his nose. When you are outdoors, introduce him to
the scents of nature. Let him feel the soft petals and smell the fragrance
of fresh blossoms or cut grass.
Play!
Floor games offer a wide variety of play options, as well as the opportunity
for your baby to perfect her new motor skills. Since babies are fascinated
by objects that move, use brightly colored balls for bouncing and rolling
fun. As your baby gains better physical control, try placing one or
two colorful toys just out of her reach. Give her a few minutes, and
see if she wiggles or scoots forward while trying to reach the toys.
Rhyme Time!
Recite nursery rhymes. Rhymes and poems that demonstrate an up-and-down
rhythm and tone emphasize the musical characteristics of language. Rhymes
will help your infant link certain words with certain actions. In combination
with gestures, rhymes will also aid in improving your child's memory
and anticipation skills. As your child grows older, these familiar nursery
rhymes will also help in the beginning phases of reading. So, build
a repertoire of songs and rhymes, and sing, say, or play them frequently.
Get Silly!
Silly face games are great fun for you and your baby. Different facial
expressions and sounds help develop your baby’s vision and hearing.
Sing a song and use exaggerated facial movements and gestures. Smile
wide, act surprised, blink your eyes, or wiggle your nose. Make different
sounds—pop air through your cheeks, yawn, or sneeze. You can even
make peek-a-boo toys out of cardboard toilet paper tubes and paper towel
cylinders. The more animated you act the more delighted your baby will
be.
Always celebrate and praise each little step your baby achieves as
he develops. By recognizing his behavior, he will learn that his actions
matter. Acknowledge his attempts as well as his accomplishments, since
both are equally important. As you consistently validate his achievements,
you will also help him to establish a positive self-image, which is
critical to the development of his personality. If you give your baby
the opportunity to develop this positive awareness of himself right
from the earliest stages of his life, his feelings of success will further
his incentive to achieve.